Stuart became a stepdad to three young boys when we married in August 2006. From the beginning, he was calm, patient, and always there when it mattered. One of the first things he gave them was a bedtime storybook. It wasn’t just a gift—it became part of their family routine. After each story, they would write down the date and who was there. Those pages now hold years of memories.

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Stuart showed his love in quiet ways. He packed lunches, helped with homework, and went to every concert, game, and school meeting. He never tried to take over. He let their mom lead and stayed respectful of their dad. He focused on being kind, steady, and reliable.

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At the same time, Stuart has always been a very capable attorney. He works hard and handles serious responsibilities in his job, but he still finds time to be present at home. He balances his work and family life with care and commitment, never letting one take away from the other.

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As the boys got older, Stuart found special ways to connect with each of them. He helped one build a gaming computer, talked books with another, and supported the oldest while buying his first truck. That truck was a big deal. It cost more than the budget allowed, but Stuart helped him negotiate the price and loan terms, just like a good lawyer would. He stayed calm and helped him through the whole process—without taking over. It was a proud moment for everyone.

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Stuart also taught the boys how to save money, care for their cars, and handle everyday responsibilities. Being a stepdad isn’t easy, but Stuart made it work by being patient, kind, and dependable. He helped raise three boys—and helped shape three strong young men.

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I'm so thankful for Stuart.